Changing others comes from the ego disguised as love.

At some point in our life, we all experience the tendency to change others;

Then we realize that we can not change the world; we only can change ourselves;

But the tendency to change others keeps sneaking back in many subtle ways;

We care for our loved ones, so we need to change them so they can have a better experience or more awareness while they are not ready;

Seeing our loved ones battling through life can cause pain, and we feel frustrated because they are unaware of how to change their way of living; 

Is this love? 

Or is it projecting an unhealed part of us that we do not accept? 

Why is it hard to see our loved ones as souls going through their journey? 

Why do we get so much involved in heavy low emotions? 

Why can we not accept them as they are even if they are not happy ( at least in our eyes) because happiness is relative?

What started as caring to help our loved ones is now turning into judgment and non-acceptance;

Meet people with love at their level of awareness;

Accept them where they are in the journey;

Every soul has a different experience;

Every soul has a different path;

All souls come from love;

But they choose different lessons to go back to their essence; 

Feel into this thought;

Remind yourself that you interpret others’ experiences way differently than what the person is experiencing;

Acceptance of what is;

Acceptance removes judgment;

Acceptance comes with love;

When you accept and look at them through the eyes of love, you know that your initial desire to change them comes from the ego.